It is WHAT it IS~

Today I woke up to many thoughts as I always do, so many that it would take volumes of books in order to get them all out there. At the same time my thoughts are MY THOUGHTS and MOST of the time they are EVERYONE ELSE'S thoughts also. The difference between me and them is I feel the need to speak on it. Yes, yes even if these words/thoughts offend you or places your spirit in an uncomfortable place. Let's just be real for once and say that people NEED to know that they are not fooling anyone but themselves.. So allow me to journey through thoughts of mines and respond to these thoughts; while doing so feel free to CHECK YOUR SPIRIT/YOURSELF in the process. It is not hard to do I do this with myself ALL THE TIME, see I stay checking me especially when I am thrown off balance.. Follow through and as you read please feel free to CHECK YOURSELF, hahaha or better yet ALLOW ME TO DO IT FOR YOU!!

IT IS WHAT IT IS~

When you GROW into a certain place in your life, you require MORE; simply because MORE is required of you. Mere "for the moments" are just brief encounters that BLOCK what is actually FOR YOU. Can't continue to WASTE your time with those that are willing to take the bare (simple or essential)minimum, of you when YOU have SO MUCH MORE to offer.
If you are dealing with a man or woman that has something going on with them and in their life that you can't really put your finger on.. Then YES you are right there is something going on alright, and you can't put your finger on it BUT your intuition is telling you that all finger are pointing to the door so GET YOURSELF OUT OF THAT MESS.. But NO, you stay and you continue to TRY TRY TRY; while each time you try the situation get more and more hurtful to you and toward you.. Se you the ONLY one that is being hurt in this matter, ok yeah him or her will come back pleading confusion on this "relationship" and they will say they want you to stay, oh and they never want to lose you, let's not forget that they "LOVE" them some you..
Such SIMPLE and SILLY people we are. YES the nut is confused, of course he or she is; they confused as to WHY and HOW they got themselves this involved with you while in THEY MARRIAGE, FULL BLOWN RELATIONSHIP with someone else.. They do want you to stay, yep sure do but are you willing to stay under their conditions being that they are in something else that was before you and will be AFTER YOU?? Ok so they "LOVE" you now oh and they feel torn, WAKE THE HELL UP.... It is not LOVE, it's LUST yes it's I LOVE what you do to me and for me because he/she don't do what YOU DO.. Ha! While you settling and giving your all and heck you even throwing EXTRA on it, doing things that you ain't NEVER done before to keep this thing right here satisfied and here with you.

JUST SAY IT!!!! You want to be there because you are an insecure individual that feels like if you let that go then what are your options...??? Your are a person that feels like you just HAVE to be with someone, because you just can't IMAGINE being alone and by yourself long enough to LOVE YOURSELF and get to KNOW YOURSELF... That is just not an option for you. You rather SETTLE & you don't mind settling for WHAT is not even WORTH you dealing with and being in. See many people don't even recognize their WORTH until after you have wasted all that time and energy with what/WHO was not WORTH all of that to begin with.

The bible clearly states in (MATTHEW 7:6)
"Do not give dogs what is sacred;do not throw your pearls to swine. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces."

On that note ALONE i WILL LEAVE THE REST OF MY THOUGHTS FOR ANOTHER DAY AND TIME, hahahaha, it seems that this one thought alone I could do the first volume of many books.. You know Loves, it is so SIMPLE yet WE make it all so COMPLICATED by not LOVING ourselves ENOUGH to want more and DEMAND more from people. We have to also understand that when and if we don't get what it is we DESERVE then WE MOVE ON & LET GO...

Until next time,
Love is ALWAYS LOVE & TRUTH

Xoxo RUTH the TRUTH~