Loving YOU Enough~

Naive: having or showing an excessively simple and trusting view of the world and human nature, often as a result of youth and inexperience..

If WOMEN complicate things just a tad bit, versus being so damn SIMPLE "he" might respect your heart instead of JUST YOUR PHYSICAL. LOOK at HIS ACTIONS & CLOSE your ears to his words; LOVE would mean more than just LUST if YOU were just a LITTLE more complex about yourself.We ALLOW them to over look US, our feelings, our self respect, our dignity, our religion, our hearts and so much more that comes along with us being women/mothers/sisters/daughters...

WHY? Because we are overlooking ourselves (PERIOD)..

He doesn't call Monday through Friday after 10pm, because he CAN'T, so YOU settle for the frequent texts during respectable hours and the twice a month phone calls. You schedule day's and times to hook up and "spend time" with each other when HIS schedule permits, not yours..If a "MAN" shows a particular PATTERN in his life, then WHY do WOMEN believe that something THEY do or have will change HIS PATTERNS(make him commit to you)? YOU CAN NOT & HE WILL NOT... That "MAN" is just like this. These are his ways for whatever reason they seem to work for him & YOU ALLOW IT to work for him.......

This man is CLEARLY committed to someone else and you are not only being the cause of another woman's affects; but you being the cause of your own.. By deciding to SETTLE for what HE is WILLING to hand you.Of course he will hand you a PACIFIER here and there to keep you from stepping away from the reason he got you there in the first place (cause you doing what she WON'T do).. You want rent paid, "fine", but SHUT UP about the fact that I stood you up, you want a new car "fine"; but keep whatever you want to say about me not responding to you all week to yourself~And us with our silly selves sit back, suck on them pacifiers and hold ourselves, rock ourselves to sleep at night while we praying he calls us the next day.. So you sit back & do EVERYTHING she won't do for him & to him but SHE HAS HIM (his heart & mind) All yo SIMPLE self got is the PHYSICAL...

Just an F.Y.I.
When your HEART CAN'T SMILE with thoughts of "HIM" you HAVE TO LET HIM GO... When YOU can't pull the COVERS from over your head, due to "HIM" DISREGARDING YOU, YOU’RE HEART & YOUR MIND..... YOU HAVE TO LET HIM GO!!! Give that MAN his EULOGY & MOVE ON, MOURN the loss of TIME WASTED not the loss of the relationship..

You should GROW into a certain place in your life to where you require MORE; simply because MORE is required of you. Mere "for the moments" are just brief encounters that BLOCK what is actually FOR YOU (what GOD has for you). Can't continue to WASTE your time with those that are willing to take the bare(simple or essential)minimum, of you when there is so much more to you as a WOMAN. We are POWERFUL creatures of GOD, so POWERFUL that we BIRTH into this world much more then just another person; we BIRTH into this world WISDOM & UNDERSTANDING that is WHY we are BLESSED to BARE SO MUCH..

Proverbs4:6-7

WISDOM is SUPREME~Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her and she will watch over you. WISDOM IS SUPREME therefore GET WISDOM.

I'm complicated because YOU ARE so simple~

Love is LOVE ~ Ruth the TRUTH